Unpopular opinion time.

[coyotesuspect]

See this girl?



Yes. This one. In the red.

She is engaged to Jared Padalecki.

And I- I think that's absolutely wonderful.

Genevieve seems like a sweet girl, and she and Jared deserve every happiness, both personally and professionally. I don't think their relationship was too short. I don't think they don't know each other well enough. I don't think they're making a huge mistake. But I do think fandom's reaction to the news is part of the reason Gen and Jared have been so leery about being open about their relationship.

Relationships are odd. Even when you know the two people involved, it's impossible to determine how the relationship is going to work out. And to decide whether or not two people who you don't even know are making a huge mistake and not actually in love not only strikes me as ridiculous, but also hugely distasteful. I don't know Genevieve or Jared. I don't know how their relationship works. I do know that love is a funny thing. I do know that they're engaged, and I do wish them great joy and much luck.

To that end, while I respect your right to your opinion, there will be no bashing of Genevieve or Jared or their relationship in my journal. (This also applies to Jensen and Danneel, but fandom, being fandom, has decided that that relationship is okay, so I don't think it's going to be a problem.) No, "I don't mind Gen, but I wish he'd married Sandy!" No, "But they haven't known each other long enough!" No, "But I'm just worried about Jared!" Nothing. Nada. Zip.

I can't (and probably shouldn't) control fandom, but my journal is my place. Jared and Genevieve deserve better than to have their relationship ripped apart by strangers.

Thank you and good night.

(Why yes. I did just disappear off the internet for a few days only to pop back up with a rant about fandom. What of it?)

ETA: While I am ~sharing~ my opinion with the internet, I think a sixth season of Supernatural would be absolutely fucking awesome. \o/

Comments

[coyotesuspect.livejournal.com]

Yep! Opinions, they vary!

Thanks! It's actually one I made myself. I just cropped it from a picture of them I found online.



*sigh* I do miss Uriel.

[mokusan.livejournal.com]

Oh, awesome!

Uriel was BA.

[coyotesuspect.livejournal.com]

While I'm not really interested in the angels as they currently exist and interact in SPN, I am interested in their backstory. I'd love to read fic about Anna and Castiel and Uriel in Biblical times. Angel backstory would be amazing.

[mokusan.livejournal.com]

Toss in a bit of Gabriel and Raphael, and I'd be game. There's so much to explore there.

[coyotesuspect.livejournal.com]

They are also invited (as is Lucifer). I just think Uriel, Castiel, and Anna would be of particular interest since they were in the same garrison and have so much history.

[mokusan.livejournal.com]

Yeah. I can't remember if it was actually stated or if it was just something I decided/came to a conclusion about on my own, but Uriel and Castiel always seemed especially close, despite their opposing views, and I think it would be beyond wonderful to get a glimpse of why that was (the "funniest angel in the garrison" line always gets me). The idea of those three before "Sam and Dean" is just so interesting.

[coyotesuspect.livejournal.com]

I always thought the same as well. It would make sense. They worked together as partners, and they had literally thousands of years to build that partnership.

"funniest angel" makes me laugh too. :D