Unpopular opinion time.
Jan. 11th, 2010 01:01 amSee this girl?

Yes. This one. In the red.
She is engaged to Jared Padalecki.
And I- I think that's absolutely wonderful.
Genevieve seems like a sweet girl, and she and Jared deserve every happiness, both personally and professionally. I don't think their relationship was too short. I don't think they don't know each other well enough. I don't think they're making a huge mistake. But I do think fandom's reaction to the news is part of the reason Gen and Jared have been so leery about being open about their relationship.
Relationships are odd. Even when you know the two people involved, it's impossible to determine how the relationship is going to work out. And to decide whether or not two people who you don't even know are making a huge mistake and not actually in love not only strikes me as ridiculous, but also hugely distasteful. I don't know Genevieve or Jared. I don't know how their relationship works. I do know that love is a funny thing. I do know that they're engaged, and I do wish them great joy and much luck.
To that end, while I respect your right to your opinion, there will be no bashing of Genevieve or Jared or their relationship in my journal. (This also applies to Jensen and Danneel, but fandom, being fandom, has decided that that relationship is okay, so I don't think it's going to be a problem.) No, "I don't mind Gen, but I wish he'd married Sandy!" No, "But they haven't known each other long enough!" No, "But I'm just worried about Jared!" Nothing. Nada. Zip.
I can't (and probably shouldn't) control fandom, but my journal is my place. Jared and Genevieve deserve better than to have their relationship ripped apart by strangers.
Thank you and good night.
(Why yes. I did just disappear off the internet for a few days only to pop back up with a rant about fandom. What of it?)
ETA: While I am ~sharing~ my opinion with the internet, I think a sixth season of Supernatural would be absolutely fucking awesome. \o/

Yes. This one. In the red.
She is engaged to Jared Padalecki.
And I- I think that's absolutely wonderful.
Genevieve seems like a sweet girl, and she and Jared deserve every happiness, both personally and professionally. I don't think their relationship was too short. I don't think they don't know each other well enough. I don't think they're making a huge mistake. But I do think fandom's reaction to the news is part of the reason Gen and Jared have been so leery about being open about their relationship.
Relationships are odd. Even when you know the two people involved, it's impossible to determine how the relationship is going to work out. And to decide whether or not two people who you don't even know are making a huge mistake and not actually in love not only strikes me as ridiculous, but also hugely distasteful. I don't know Genevieve or Jared. I don't know how their relationship works. I do know that love is a funny thing. I do know that they're engaged, and I do wish them great joy and much luck.
To that end, while I respect your right to your opinion, there will be no bashing of Genevieve or Jared or their relationship in my journal. (This also applies to Jensen and Danneel, but fandom, being fandom, has decided that that relationship is okay, so I don't think it's going to be a problem.) No, "I don't mind Gen, but I wish he'd married Sandy!" No, "But they haven't known each other long enough!" No, "But I'm just worried about Jared!" Nothing. Nada. Zip.
I can't (and probably shouldn't) control fandom, but my journal is my place. Jared and Genevieve deserve better than to have their relationship ripped apart by strangers.
Thank you and good night.
(Why yes. I did just disappear off the internet for a few days only to pop back up with a rant about fandom. What of it?)
ETA: While I am ~sharing~ my opinion with the internet, I think a sixth season of Supernatural would be absolutely fucking awesome. \o/
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Date: 2010-01-11 07:32 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2010-01-11 07:48 am (UTC)Castiel, tbqh, doesn't really interest me beyond his ability to provide exposition. I didn't like or trust him last season (and a lot of his actions angered me), and this season it feels like the writers are using him mainly as comic relief. They don't really have a good grasp on him.
But to each her own, right?
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Date: 2010-01-11 07:52 am (UTC)I like his potential more than what's actually happened in the show, I guess, but I'm also really interested in his interactions with Dean, their chemistry (the season four finale, in particular, because dang), and how they can relate to each other. I don't like how the writers have treated him lately, though I guess it has been some fun to raise a few issues (an angel in a brothel stirs up all kinds of trouble).
But yes, to each her own. I'm just excited for the 21st because it looks like that episode is going to be intense. I'll be disappointed if it's not (I remember getting super excited for that episode where people were getting calls from the dead because the promo was amazing, but IMO that was a snooze fest).
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Date: 2010-01-11 07:56 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-01-11 07:57 am (UTC)Love the icon, btw! I wish I had room for more SPN icons, haha.
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Date: 2010-01-11 08:01 am (UTC)Thanks! It's actually one I made myself. I just cropped it from a picture of them I found online.
*sigh* I do miss Uriel.
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Date: 2010-01-11 08:02 am (UTC)Uriel was BA.
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Date: 2010-01-11 08:19 am (UTC)"funniest angel" makes me laugh too. :D